Saturday, February 29, 2020

Bits and Pieces: January and February

Why do these two months always feel so long? Luckily, the sun has shone its face again for several days in a row. I am happy to be heading toward the end of winter. (Even though I know we could still have more snow and more cold for several more weeks.)

We started the year with some warm weather when we traveled to Fort Myers Beach, Florida. It was a lovely trip. The only sad thing was that my brother and his family had to cancel their trip at the last minute because of some health concerns. (Everyone is fine.) We missed them a lot, but will get to see them later this year.

My sister and her family and my parents did make the trip with us. We had a great time in the pool, at the beach, eating key lime pie, drinking wine and just enjoying each other's company. Ben and I took the kids to the Everglades. We saw alligators, dolphins, manatees and lots of birds. The kids had a great time. Clare got to go on a one-on-one mini golf trip with her Baba Ralph, and Ben and I saw a the new Star Wars. We also got to visit Ben's Aunt Diane and Uncle Randy, who moved to Fort Myers last year. We stayed at the same house we stayed in the last few times we've gone. We even had fun the day we tried to have a picnic on the beach and were attacked by a flock of seagulls. Picture this: Clare running screaming down the beach, my mom trying to shoo the seagulls away with a towel, my sister standing there holding a sandwich, watching while a seagull took the sandwich right out of her hand. Christopher, Josie and Otto all crying. Katie and I laughing so hard we can't move. Meanwhile, the guys bike up the beach to witness this, wondering what in the heck is happening. (Christopher performed a brief reenactment that night at dinner: "It was like: caw caw. Ahhhhh!"

After Florida we had to get back into the school routine. The kids had three weeks off in a row (Christmas break plus our trip) and let me tell you it was not fun trying to get them back into school mode. Especially Christopher, who struggled for weeks with having to get up early again. I am happy to say that everyone seems to be back on track, finally. Of course, by the laws of nature and the internet something will now happen to throw everything off course again. Probably the flu, which is running rampant through the kids' school. Or more likely, the Coronavirus, which is currently number one in my Cycle of Worry(TM pending).

Clare and I went on her Girl Scout winter camping trip. (We slept inside a lodge, not in tents.) She had a blast, and I only stayed one night, so I was happy about that. I hosted my friend Peggy's birthday dinner the next night, so I left early. That was a fun activity, too. Clare had fun cross country skiing, playing games (which mostly seemed to involve the girls running around screaming) and visiting with a sled dog team.

It was Oscar movie season, which as I say every year, I enjoy because it gets me out of the house. I won the Oscar pool again for the third or fourth year in a row. Kerry is threatening to put peanuts in my food next year. I don't think she was serious, but I'll bring my epipen just in case. I didn't do my post about the the movies, but my favorite was Parasite and I am glad it won. I also really liked 1917 and Little Women. I did not like the Irishman. (I do like Irish men in general, though. Don't worry, Ben.)

I also had a weekend away at my dear friend Chelsea's cabin near Lake Vermillion. It was so fun to spend the weekend with some of my college friends - Jessica and Cindi were there, too. We have been friends for 22 years. (Cindi and I have known each other since 5th grade.) We drank lots of wine, went snowshoeing through the woods and hiking on the lake, and watched Magic Mike 2.  (This movie is so bad, but there is one hysterically funny scene that we couldn't stop watching. If you've seen it you know which one I mean.) It was a wonderful weekend. I feel like I can breathe better in the northwoods, you know?

Other than that, we have been busy with normal life. Clare is selling Girl Scout cookies, which I always feel like I end up spending too much time coordinating. She does a lot too, though. We even drove out to Woodbury to deliver cookies to my former manager at Caribou. It was great to see him again after 20 years.

We have a few things planned for the next few weeks, but are mostly laying low until Spring Break. I am ready for Spring!

Skating on New Year's Day.

I'm glad she doesn't play hockey.

Cousins on the couch in Florida.

                                      

Dolphins on a boat ride in the Everglades.

Eating lunch in Everglade City.

Reading signs.

                                               

It's more fun to look at Mom than alligators.

Clare with her headgear.

Clare putting the kids to bed.

Boys buried at the beach.






She beat two out of three games. I should maybe be embarrassed, but I am just proud.

Girl Scout camping.

The view from Chelsea's cabin.
My oldest friends on a frozen lake.
                                 
Eating lunch at school with my buddy.

It's Girl Scout cookie time!

Dressed up to eat lunch with Daddy at work.


Legoes on a Saturday.





Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Bits and Pieces: November and December

Lots of people are posting end-of-decade retrospectives, and while it's true that a lot has changed for me over the last 10 years (moving, two children, buying a house, new friends, hard losses); I don't have the energy to do a thoughtful post about these years. At least not today, the morning after Clare had a sleepover with a friend and someone was doing donuts in the parking lot next door at 2:30 in the morning.

So, I'll stick to recapping the highlights of the last two months.

November was busy with birthday parties, girl scouts, swimming lessons, basketball (Christopher) and of course, Thanksgiving. I also had my Fall girls' weekend away, which was relaxing and much-needed. We spent the entire Saturday of our weekend in our pajamas watching movies. Hard to go wrong.

Christopher's basketball skills have greatly improved since I last wrote! He is dribbling much better. He liked it enough to sign up for the next session this winter. He is also very into Minecraft and Legoes right now. (Lucky kid got five new Lego sets for Christmas.)

Clare and I went to Feed My Starving Children with her Girl Scout troop. It was a great service project, and I am hoping Clare got something out of helping others. The girls also earned their snack badge and their pets badge. Clare is bargaining hard for a cat (have I written about her presentation? Yeah, she did an entire presentation, complete with chore schedule). I am resisting, for now. It is hard to say no. Clare is playing soccer again this winter, but it is only once a week. She was thrilled with the polaroid camera Santa brought her for Christmas, and has been taking many pictures. (She also got Legoes and doll stuff.)

Thanksgiving was here. It went well, and Ben's aunt even emailed me to say it was the best Thanksgiving dinner she'd eaten. I'll take it. Ben took the kids to deliver Meals on Wheels on Thanksgiving morning. This was great for me. It was less great for them, because it wasn't very well organized. At least they tried to do something service-oriented!

December was busy with the usual Christmas festivities. I struggle this time of year. It is fun, and I enjoy the parties and buying gifts, but the emotional load is a lot. I am kind of glad it is over, even though I always feel a bit said when I take down the decorations.

The kids slept over at Aunt Katie and Uncle Andrew's one night this month, so Ben and I got to go to a Christmas party and out for a drink. It was lovely. We also went out to a fancy hotel for my friend Cindi's 40th - the Hewing Hotel in the North Loop in Minneapolis. We had a babysitter and took an Uber, so Ben and I went a little wild. Wild for us, anyway. It was fun to see old college friends.

We also had the Exley family party, a Rae Lane North cookie decorating party, my "Office" party (day drinking with friends) and my friend Sarah's Hot Drinks party. There were also all of the family Christmas celebrations, which actually aren't totally over yet. We had a nice time. We're spending New Year's Eve and New Year's Day just the four of us. I am looking forward to some quiet family time.

And now we are moving on to 2020. It seems impossible, but here we are.

Found on my phone. Or maybe my mom's phone.

Clare and I at my friend Anna's birthday party. We packed boxes for a food shelf.

Clare, in a dog cage!!!! She has come a long way with her fear of dogs. This was when she was working on her pet badge at the Humane Society.

Cousins seeing Frozen II on a snow day. (Clare: "The third grade girls all decided we are not into Frozen any more, but we all want to see Frozen II." Okay then.)

I didn't get any family pictures on Thanksgiving, but I did get a shot of my homemade pies.

My sous chef on Thanksgiving day. She made the corn casserole all by herself.

Lunch at Ben's office on the day after Thanksgiving.

Clare got her first pedicure! 

Introducing the kids to the Garfield Christmas special. This gem is available on YouTube.

Decorating our Christmas tree. The tree lot next door was shockingly quiet this year. I am not complaining.


We took the kids on the Santa Train out of Union Depot. They had a blast. Especially Christopher.

Telling Santa what they wanted for Christmas.

Fun face paint.


Ben and I at Due on our night out.

Cookie time!

A wise woman and a camel.

All four of us went to the Nutcracker this year. A friend's daughter was one of the Bon-Bons!

First day of Christmas break.

Scenes from Christmas morning...



My mom with some of her grandchildren on Christmas Day.

Playing at a park near my parents' house. We spent a few days there after Christmas.


Ready for New Year's Eve games.