Bits and pieces: September

It has been a rough few days on the national political scene, and basically it feels like everything is a huge dumpster fire. So I am choosing to focus on my little corner of the world, because I have that privilege.

For example, somehow I have one child who is a Vikings fan and one who is a Buccaneers fan. Why have they foresaken their mother's homeland? Well, one child chose their team based on mascot alone. I'll let you guess who that was.

Anyway, September. School is going well for both kids. I was worried about Christopher, but he has happily climbed onto the bus each day. We did have an incident with a bully on the bus (this kid even bit Christopher one day), but Christopher has handled it in his usual laid back fashion, and I think we have dealt with it.  I am volunteering in Clare's class, and so far it has been fun. I have so much respect for her teacher, and am so happy she has him for two more years.

Christopher and I have started our ECFE class. I have been trying to keep us busy each afternoon so I don't fall into the trap of screen time so I can have some silence.

I have been enjoying my free time while Christopher is at school. It is not a lot of time, but it is still ALL MINE. I have mostly been going to the Y and to Target, but I am still ALONE.

The kids have been playing soccer, which takes up most of Saturday morning. This weekend we went to an apple orchard, even though it was cloudy and cold. Welcome fall!

October is jam packed, so I am trying to relax today. By relaxing I mean baking an apple crisp and putting out the fall decorations. And watching the Packers, despite being the only one in my house who is doing so.

Clare helped paint the trim on the garage.

The kids both LOVED the Gravitron at the school fair next to our house. You can actually see our house in this picture.

They had fun on this ride with their cousin.

Ben and I had a brunch date when my sister and brother-in-law took the kids to the zoo.

They thought it was hilarious when they dressed up in our clothes.

We checked out the new Case and Keg market in the old Schmidt Brewery in St. Paul. It was cool, but the best part was the brewery, Clutch.

The kids thought the best part was the cotton candy. Christopher's was s'mores flavored.

First Days

Clare's first day of second grade was easy for her. She has the same teacher and most of the same kids in her class.  No problem. I was at school for Christopher's conference with his teacher, and I peeked in the lunch room while Clare was eating. She was happily chatting away with her best friend, Natalie.

I was nervous for Christopher's first day of Pre-K. At the meeting with his teacher, he hid under the table and refused to speak to her. (Which is not how he usually operates. For example, he told our waitress at Snuffy's today that he is in Pre-K, that he's 4 but is almost five, and that he would please like a grilled cheese. When we got home he tried to scare my neighbor's sister, who he'd never met before, by growling at her like a dragon. "Did you think fire would come out of my mouth?" he asked.
But I digress.)

After the conference, he announced that he did not like his teacher's face. He woke up on the morning of the first day of school crying. However, Clare saved the day. She got him excited by telling him they didn't have to wear seat belts on the bus. Somehow this fact was enough to get him over his dislike of his teacher's face. He had a great day, and was super excited when he got off the bus at lunch time. (And only partially because his bus driver's name is also Christopher.) So it was a good day. I hope he still enjoys it this week.

Bits and Pieces: August

Well, that's it for summer. Adios, don't let the door hit you on the way out.

August was okay, actually, but as usual we are all ready to be out of each other's company for awhile. Clare has been ready to go back to school for weeks, and I think Christopher is starting to get excited, too.

Now that Christopher will be in school five mornings a week I'll probably start thinking about my next steps, too. It is long past time that I go back to work, but that can be pretty hard to do after being at home for 5 years. Maybe I'll go back to school and start over like my mom did.

So, August. Clare finally cashed in her birthday present at the beginning of this month and got her ears pierced. She did well. Honestly, I wasn't sure she would go through with it because we usually have to have two people hold her down to give her the flu shot, but she did it with no tears. After the big event we had Tenney's ears pierced at the American Girl Doll Salon. She had her hair styled, too. Then Clare and I had lunch.

Clare went to a science camp the first week in August. It was through the Science Museum of Minnesota and was focused on engineering. She loved it. I am so happy she is interested in math and science. I am trying to encourage it without making her feel like it's something she has to do. So far, so good.

We had a few playdates and things this month. I even had a playdate with my friend Chrissy. (I hate the term play date by the way. And is it one word or two?) It was great to see Chrissy and Christopher had a great time with Adam and Ben. They were so nice to him even though he is so much younger.

I took the kids to visit my parents for a few days. Clare was very excited to see her grandparents and go swimming, but unfortunately she got sick and was really out of it for most of our visit. Christopher had fun, though. Especially on the day I let him watch TV most of the day. I also took him to his favorite weird indoor playground in Fitchburg, located just down the street from where I grew up. I missed out on seeing my friend Christina and her new baby because of Clare's illness, so I was super bummed about that. Hopefully I'll get to meet her little one next time I am in town. I did enjoy seeing my parents and drinking martinis, though.

Another exciting first for Clare this month: her first sleepover! She spent the night at her friend Nora's house and had a BLAST. It was easy for me, because Nora's mom is one of my best friends. I knew she was in good hands. I was looking forward to having some time to myself after Christopher went to bed. (Ben was at a meeting.) I was going to FINALLY watch the Veronica Mars movie, but then Christopher started complaining that his ear hurt. Fast forward through a sleepless night to the doctor the next day and an ear infection diagnosis. Not only did I miss out on the movie, I missed out on a beach day with friends. (They nicely took Clare, so she didn't miss out on anything.) Anyway, to continue to make this boring story even longer, Christopher is fine and I watched Veronica Mars the next night. I can't wait for the Hulu series!

Oh, and of course we went to the Fair. The best part for me was breakfast at the Blue Barn and the horticulture building, especially the Christmas trees and flower kaleidoscope. Christopher loved the animals. Clare loved the rides. Ben loved the beer. It was our typical fair experience.

We had our back to school open house last night. It was fun to see the kid's teachers and meet new parents.

And now on to Labor Day weekend. We are having a little party here on Saturday, followed by another trip to the Fair for Ben and Clare on Sunday. Christopher and I are going to Como Zoo. That is much more our speed.

Edited to add: We visited my Grandma (Clare's namesake) for her 95th (!) birthday. It was so nice to see her and my two aunts. My parents and Katie were there, too. By far the best part was our off key rendition of "Happy Birthday" which left all of us in a puddle of tears of laughter. (Christopher did his typical growling singing, which just added to the song's charm.) My Grandma said it was the best birthday song she could have asked for.

Getting her science on at the Children's Museum.

His favorite part of the museum, other than the car wash and the slide.

Before the piercing!

She did it! And Tenney did well, too.

    

My sister and I took the kids to Square Lake in Stillwater one Saturday. They had fun. We were stressed.

Christopher did not want to participate in a group picture.

Carefully putting his school supplies on the checkout counter.

My mother-in-law had Clare, Tenney, Samantha, and I over for a fancy tea party. It was really fun.

Swimming in Janesville before she got sick.

We got two new windows. Sadly, our bay window is gone but I like the way the new one looks.

Fair time. Obvs.

In the fire tower at the DNR building.

Bumper boats. Clare is sad that she is now too tall for this ride.

Not too tall for Little Farm Hands, though!

Chemistry in the U of M building.

Annual beer selfie.

Annual Sweet Martha's cookie picture.

We met my friends Anna and Liz at Minnehaha Falls this week. The kids had fun together, once Clare warmed up. It was a beautiful day!

Back to School Night and Ice Cream Social. They are just a little excited. But not as excited as I am.

June and July, in Pictures

Even though it feels like a black hole opened up and swallowed this summer whole, the pictures on my phone say otherwise.

Annual photo taken at the Lock and Dam on the Mississippi in June.

Out for ice cream to celebrate Clare's 7th birthday.

Friends at a last day of school party at our house.

Trip to the Minnesota Zoo. The kids are not that excited about the zoo anymore, so I will be dropping our membership.

Blurry Christopher, Clare, Natalie and Elsie at Clare's birthday party at the Mall of America. They had a blast, although Clare wanted to go on a lot more rides than her friends were willing to. She has a lot of fears, but rides are not one of them.

At Rock the Garden in June. It was hot, but there was cold beer, good music and great friends.

My formally nervous swimmer jumps off the diving board.

All of the swimming lessons buddies celebrate the end of lessons at Snuffy's. Clare and Christopher both passed into the next level.

After the annual Fourth of July race in Evansville. Clare ran the mile in about 9 minutes.

The small town 4th of July parade. Christopher did a dance for everyone to try to get more candy. It worked - they are still eating the parade candy. I will throw it out before Halloween.

There are about 100 tractors in the parade. Wisconsin at it's finest.

Clare went to Camp DayCroix through the YMCA. She loved it. Christopher will go next year, too.

This is what I did while Christopher took a class at the Children's Theatre in Minneapolis.

This is what Christopher did during class. Christopher loved his class, to say the least. It was pirate-themed and his name was, fittingly, Big Skull Christopher. I think theater might be in his future.

Case in point: Clare did the zip line at Como Town.

They both enjoyed our annual day at Como Town. We skipped the animals and just focused on rides.

It was a nice day.

There was ice cream.

Meema Mary Theresa and Clare on the shores of Lake Superior. We spent a few days with my in-laws in a condo just north of Two Harbors. It was beautiful and calming. The condo was on the lake, and the views were stunning. I love Lake Superior., and the trip happened at a time when I definitely needed some peace.

Hiking at Tettegouche State Park.

Ben and Christopher on the suspension bridge.

Clare and Ben on the breakwall in Two Harbors.

Captain Christopher.

The kids and their grandpa in the condo pool.

Exploring at Gooseberry Falls.

#toocoolforschool

We were there for the saddest of reasons, but we took the kids to see a few things. Clare loved seeing the Crown Jewels at the Tower of London.

Clare participating in a street show in Convent Garden.

Hello?

Clare holding her cousin Marios for the first time on our last night in England.